I get by
with a little help from my friends
(1 Cor 10:16-17, 1 Peter 2:4-5)
Lynne McGee writes
“It all began when the
dental hygienist, who was scraping tartar off my teeth, asked, “Do you spend
about four minutes each time you brush your teeth?” With a gurgling tube
hanging from my lip, I responded, “A liddle lessth than that.”
“You really should,”
she said, “or you will lose your teeth.” I vowed to myself that I would floss,
pick, brush and rinse as instructed.
“At my annual physical
examination the doctor asked,” How often do you exercise?” “Do you limit your
salt intake?” and “Does your diet contain much cholesterol?” I thus began an
intensive fitness program, which I checked off on the daily “Personal
Maintenance Schedule” on the refrigerator door.
“I soon learned personal maintenance was not
all that I had to worry about. At the appliance-repair shop, the clerk
examining my coffee maker asked, “Do you run white vinegar through it each
month?” This began my “Home Maintenance Schedule,” which took its place next to
my personal maintenance schedule.
“Several other appliances,
too, began demanding my attention. When I discovered that the Video recorder
also required cleaning, the Air conditioner filters needed washing and so many
more.
I wondered how long I
could keep up this rigorous program of persona and household maintenance. I was
sleeping four hours a night, had lost touch with my husband and children, and
had no social life, not to mention no room left on the refrigerator door.
“It all came crashing
down one night when I was reading an article entitled: “Are You Endangering the
Lives of Your Loved Ones by Failing to Dust Your Smoke Alarms Regularly?”
“I ran to the
refrigerator and tore the schedules to shreds. In their place I have
established a policy in which I respond to all questions about my behaviour not
answering on the grounds I might incriminate myself
Sometimes Church feels like that – just add one thing to
your list – Prayer bible reading attending church, being kind to your neighbours…
Yet the bible is more about our identity than our doing – It
is more about who we are (whose we are) than anything else.
What does it mean to say you are a Christian – is you answer
Do words – like a believer or a follower
Or are they BE words – like a Child of God or One with
Christ
Or using
the words of 1 peter – a living Stone built on the foundation of Jesus
So a Christian is not just someone who is forgiven or has a
home in heaven when they die it is something I AM – it is my identity.
Our redemption does not just depend on what Christ did, but on who
he is in the depths of his being—one with God and one with us.
Gary Deddo
1 Cor 10:16f talks about this using the word communion or
Fellowship or koinonia
The cup of blessing which we bless, is it not the
communion of the blood of Christ? The bread which we break, is it not
the communion of the body of Christ? I Corinthians 10:16
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Greek
- Koinonia
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GNT - a sharing in
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NIV - A participation in..
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ISV
- our fellowship in
Paul is saying we have a shared Christian experience of
grace and forgiveness but more than that we have the deepest of bonds.
I was thinking about going to a
rugby game . You can all be at the same
game but your experience can be very different – if your side wins or loses, if
you are in the rain or in the stands.
Koinonia is about sharing more than a common experience of grace but a
joining together in deepest intimacy – the closest bonds. Some people are like that with schools – the bonds
they shared and the common experience forged a bond that time can never
erase. Catching up after many years
sees the time fade away and it was like it was yesterday.
In 1 Cor 10 Paul talks about a participation or sharing in the
blood of Jesus. This means we all share a
common experience of grace and forgiveness but deeper than that, we share in or
participate in the death of Jesus. so Paul could say in Gal 2:20 – “it is no
longer I who lives but Christ who lives in me.”
The same is true for the Body – represented in the bread. “The bread that we break, is it not a participation in the body of
Christ?” but he goes on to say “ Because there is one bread,
we who are many are one body, for we all partake of the one bread.” I Corinthians 10:16-17 This means our bond is not just with Christ
but one another. There is a upward and
an outward dimension.
This is
illustrated in 2 Peter 2:4-5
4 As you come to him, the living Stone—rejected by humans but chosen by
God and precious to him— 5 you also, like living stones, are
being built into a spiritual house
I like the idea that as
we come to him the living stone we ourselves become living stones that are
being built together.
It is this sense of identity that is both up and out – with Christ
and with each other.
Our belonging to Christ means we belong to each other. WE are not just fellow beleivers but brothers
and sisters.
This is important because Peter was writing to a people
under pressure – the world was definitely
against them. And Peters solution was to strengthen not their prayer
life but their sense of identity with Chirst and as the people of God together.
I used the illustration
of the resilience Donut a few weeks ago.
It is a model that says if you want to build resilience you have to look
at your identity (I have, I am, I can) but also the other factors. You will see
that 4 our of the 7 factors in the colored segments are relational
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Parents or Partners
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Peers
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Family
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Community
The other 3 are Education, skills and money (resources)
Lynn Worsley says of you want to have resilient people you
need to have 3 strong factors out of the seven.
Peter would
say our connection with Jesus cuts right to the core – Our Sense of identity
who I am as well as giving us a community and peers and a family to belong to.
The Beatles
were right all along – I get by with a little help from my friends. But if Christ
if your friend – you more than Get by you discover a new identity. I
like the way Paul in 1 Cor 1:30 talks about all the riches of Christ which are
ours in Christ Jesus
God has brought you into union with Christ
Jesus, and God has made Christ to be our wisdom. By him we are put right with God (our
Righteousness); we become God's holy people (our Holiness) and are
set free (our redemption).
1
Cor 1:30
Opening prayer
Dear God, we come to you with thanksgiving today.
We are grateful for who you are. A great God, the God of Majesty and power. The God of creativity and colour, reflected in the things you have made. You are a God who is full of compassion and loyal to your people.
You never turn us away and long for everyone to return to you and be saved.
God, knowing you, we have confidence to come before you today, to seek your blessing and help. More than you want to be with you, to you know you more.
We need more of your father's love, we need more of the Grace that Jesus gives, we need more of the Spirit's power and wisdom and guidance.
On this day we honour you.
This is our prayer through Jesus amen.
Prayers of the
Faithful
For the Church – that we will find meaningful ways to live lives of faithfulness and
reflecting your love and to speaking the good news of your Kingdom in today’s
world.
For
government and city leaders –
that they have clear understanding of what is right, discern between good and
evil and always act in the best interests of their communities. WE think
especially of the response to the carona virus and economic upheaval.
For parents who
are unable to provide for their family –
that they will be patient in their struggles, not become embittered by their
hardship, will be supported by family, friends, and community, and able to receive
with grace what is offered to them.
For youth and
young adults – that they will do what is good, choose what is
right, and be attentive to the calling of the Spirit within their own hearts.
We pray especially for families as they start the school holidays this week and
for the Holiday program at St Columba’s.
For our world,
still tortured by covid-19 – that those in refugee camps and other cramped living
spaces will be protected, the sick healed, the grieving consoled and the
pandemic ended. We think especially for people in Melbourne and places where
there is little medical care available.
For our family
and friends – that they would know your love and care. Help them seek the wisdom and strength you
offer. May they discover your grace and
love in every aspect of their lives.
This is our
prayer – offered in Jesus Name. Amen